Eliason Family

Welcome Garrett Chael Eliason!

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Born 9/22/11 at 6:22 am

8lbs 4oz 20.5 in

A little story of his birth...

I had a scheduled c/s for 9/22, so the day before we took advantage of being just a family of 3. We went to the breakfast then the Northwest Trek with out little girl. In the evening we dropped Baylee of with Grandma and Grandpa, and Derek and I had a little date night to ourselves.
During dinner I started having timeable, but not painful contractions. Didn't think much of it, went to bed as we had to be at the hospital at 5am. I woke up about 1:30 unable to sleep from the contractions, but they were only ever 6-7 minutes apart. I waited until we were supposed to be at the hospital anyhow, but by 4:45, my contractions were every 2 minutes, and PAINFUL! They gave me meds to try and stop it, but it didn't work, so my doc came in early, and our boy was born at 6:22 via c-section.

For those of you that know my struggle with finding the perfect name for our kid, we searched for months and considered all sorts of names. We decided the night before at dinner his middle name would be Garrett, in honor of Derek's grandpa Gary whose birthday was also 9/22. We thought more than likely we'd name him Kai, but had a list of other names just in case.

Once he was born we decided he was just not a Kai. So we went through our list, and slowly crossed off all the first names we had chose. We then move on to our previous middle name options. Chael was the only name we both thought "fit" him. So Chael Garrett it was! For about 3 minutes. We had second thoughts, so that was not a good thing. Derek and I looked at each other, why not Garrett? It felt so right, so that was it. He is our little Garrett.

These past 3 weeks have been tiring, challenging, rewarding, and awesome. Baylee loves her little brother and is very protective of him. It's taking some getting used to with 2 kids, but I love our little family. And for those of you wondering...we're not sure if this is it for us. But for right now, I'm just going to enjoy the time we have as a family of 4!

Getting ready for baby

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The few weeks before baby boy was born, Derek and I were blessed with a couple showers from family and friends

Opening gifts at his parents

Celebrating with some amazing women from my mommy group...all of us are pregnant here! Lots more new babies on the way, so excited!

Baby boy's room with our new decor!

End of summer

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Painting activities with friends

a tired little girl
coloring with her baby doll

very focused

feeding the birds at the zoo

Lots of time at the lake

Enjoying the sun, driving to the lake in mommy's yeep

and more lake time (yes, mommy misses the beach, so this is the next best thing!)

Fun at the fair

hanging out with family

Happy Birthday Baylee!

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I can't believe how big my little girl is getting already! Seems like just yesterday she was born, but we've already made it through 2 years. We had another simply family and friends party at the house. It was a nice hot day, so the kids played outside in the sprinklers while the grown-ups visited inside.

Opening presents

Hanging out with friends
...and family

Our summer so far

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Playdates with friends

and picnics
Lake time

Backyard pool time

Went to her first rodeo...and cried when the calfs got roped!

Visited family in Eastern WA

Baseball games

Beach time

Silliness at breakfast
4th of July

more swim time!

and camping

First Haircut

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We finally got around to getting Baylee's hair cut. Being that she was bald for so long, we really loved the bit she finally had. But it was really dry baby hair that just looked like a big raggedy mess, so it was time. We were going to take her to one of those cute kids shops, but after hearing their prices, it wasn't worth it for a cute shot in an airplane seat. So off to the gal who does my hair.

Both Baylee and the stylist did a wonderful job!

After all was said and done, she didn't come out with a whole new cut, but she finally looks a bit more, contained.

And the verdict is...

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BOY!

We are very surprised, but very excited. Baylee on the other hand was hoping for a sister I think...

Easter

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Happy Easter! Baylee had a blast this Easter getting to dye a few eggs. We didn't too many, nor got too crazy, but she had a blast coloring and designing the fun eggs.

Easter morning we set out a few eggs for her to find. She didn't get it at first, just wanted to sit down and eat the candy out of the eggs she found. Took a bit of helping her to realize how exciting it was to find all the eggs all over the house. She also was super excited finding her basket and had a blast looking through all her new books and scribbling on her new magnet board.

Spring activities

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So I haven't posted much as 1, we've been super busy lately working extra trying to get finances in better order and save for maternity leave. Yes, most of you know already we are expecting another little one in Sept, we find out later today what we're having! And 2, it's been a crappy winter so we haven't gotten to go out and do much to actually talk about! But I think spring is slowly creeping upon us. It's still been pretty cold but we've finally had some days we can get outside and so something. So, lately we've been out to the children's museum with our mom's group, also visited the zoo with all the kiddos on one of the really gorgeous days.

Derek didn't have to work one day so we headed off to Northwest Trek, our "wildlife" park which showcases animals native to the Northwest, in their natural habitat. It's really pretty awesome and we've always gotten to see the moose, bison, elk, caribou and deer all up really close.

Cousins!

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Christmas this year seemed to whiz right by us. We spent Christmas eve having pizzas and celebrating with Derek's family. I ended up working Christmas day, but got off early. We were able to spend some time together, have a nice McDonalds xmas dinner and hang out with our good friend "Uncle Chris" as Baylee knows him. Needless to say, I didn't take many photos. But, the 26th is when the real fun started as my niece Kekoa, or KK, came to visit for a few days, and meet her cousin for the first time!

Daddy helping her open her big gift

Her very own rocking chair! She loves it!

The first night we took the kids to check out zoolights at our zoo
The animals are not on display at night, but instead the paths are filled with brilliant lights and amazing designs of local attractions such as Mt. Rainier, Narrows bridge, and of course, the animals.

We did get to stop at the petting area and feed the goats

Baylee's first ride on a carousel

KK was able to ride her favorite animal, the polar bear

KK was bummed we didn't get to see any animals at the zoo, so a couple days later we headed back during the day

There are a couple tiger cubs that were born this spring, so neat to see them up close sleeping with mama

We were able to see all the animals that day quite well, but the big attraction was seeing the polar bears out

KK was so excited to get to see them up close, swimming and strolling along on the upper area

Baylee wasn't sure what to think of them.

KK was really great with Baylee the whole time. She was so helpful from helping Baylee eat, entertaining her when she got cranky and keeping track of her when my little miss would try and run off!

We had a great time at the zoo, and a wonderful trip overall. Of course, one more ride on the carousel!

Holiday decorations

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Santa pictures

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I apologize for the delay, I have tried with failed attempts to upload posts to my blog, but have finally got it right. Here are some much delayed pics of our day with Santa.

Hanging out with my buddy Marisa

Heather trying to keep the kids happyHamming it up

Uh, who is this guy?

Nope, not a fan. Maybe next year!

SNOW!!

2010-11-25T09:36:00.001-08:00

I am so excited to see our first snowfall of the year! Here in WA they don't get snow every year, but they said it was supposed to be the worst winter since 1950-something. Well, starting if off with snow in November is a sign of cold times to come! But I'm excited for it!

After a large snowfall Mon night, I let Baylee out to have some fun. She enjoyed stomping through it at first until she fell, and the tears came. Not a fan of the cold.
After some warm oatmeal breakfast I got her all bundled up and Aunt 'Nae and I took her out for some sledding.
She wasn't quite sure of what to think about it, but she gave us her cheese smile anyhow.
She did enjoy just playing in it and throwing it around
And eating it
When we got home Baylee went down for a nap and Derek and I played in our front yard and made a snowman.

Fall Adventures

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I realized there were a few adventures this fall that I missed blogging about. Start off that in September we made it to the Western WA fair. We always made it a point to go every year, so we're keeping the tradition!

Baylee had a great time petting the goats, until it turned around. Right after this shot she freaked out and ran away crying!
Of course checking out the animals is only at the fair has to be followed up by good food. We did get some "healthy" corn in to counter-act the elephant ears and scones we had.
Derek and I also celebrated our 3rd anniversary. His parents watched Baylee overnight while we spent the evening in Seattle. We got a hotel for the night and enjoyed some good food at an awesome Irish Pub followed by entertainment at a dueling pianos bar. We made friends with some fun Canadian girls. I had a blast out there dancing with them and laughing the night away.
As a gift to Derek we got tickets to a Seahawks game.
It was a cold and rainy day (what a surprise) but we still had a great time. Derek's longtime friend came with us and brought his dad. His dad is a lifetime Seahawks fan and has only been to one other game, so it was a real treat for him too!
We spent a Sat morning and drove up to Snoqualmie falls to have breakfast with a friend of mine.
It was absolutely gorgeous and Baylee had a great time running around before sitting down for out brunch.
Kassie and I have been friends for 26 years. She moved up to WA in 5th grade, and we got back in contact about 4 years ago. We used to tell people we were twins when we were younger, and despite years of distance it still seems that way. She too is a nurse now and we have so many interests in common, it's almost scary. It's great to have her around again!

Halloween

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The last couple years have been hectic and Halloween always seems to just fly by, but this year we had a great time with parties and Trick-or-treating.

The 30th I got called off work which turned to be a good thing as we were able to attend another kiddo's 1st birthday party.
The little dragon climbing over everyone is the birthday boy. James is the youngest and one of the littlest in our baby group, but man, is he full of personality!
It's tough getting a group of babies to sit still and smile, but this is what we got!

My little monkey, excited to have her space back to climb all over the couch!

On Halloween we decided to get together with Derek's family and take all the kids trick-or-treating around Grandma & Grandpa's neighborhood. Baylee wasn't too sure of what to do at the first house.
Her cousins did a great job of helping her out and showing her how to politely go to each door

And they waited so patiently for her to walk back down. Once Baylee got the hang of it, she wanted no help from anyone!

My little Miss Independant. She was hell-bent on carrying her own bag, walking to each house, she was NOT to be carried, put each piece of candy in the bag herself.

It was a short night, but we had a great time, and I look forward to the many more years to come, and lots more candy!!!

Happy 1st Birthday Baylee!!

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I can't believe how quickly this year flew by...it's amazing to think my little girl went from

Our weekend started out picking Auntie Mia up from her trip in Portland to come celebrate with us. We had a good time walking around the outlet center in Centralia and having dinner with Sarah and her hubby Sam.
Telling us stories at dinner
and just being cute
The following day was her big birthday celebration!
Chatting with some of her guests

Uncle Parish even made the trip up to celebrate

What's a birthday without your bestie to help play with all your new toys!
She wasn't sure what to think about everyone singing to her...
But she had no problems eating the whole thing! Grandpa even snuck her seconds. Eh, it's your birthday, enjoy it kiddo!

We got to spend lots of time the following days with Malia, hanging out with her friends...
Playing in the sand and chatting away

Best friends forever! I am so thankful for this girl in my life! We've been friends since 4th grade, so exciting getting to have her in my little girls life now

Our first ferry ride into Seattle

We were even able to catch an Angels game. At the Mariners stadium. I may live in WA now, but I'll always be an Angels fan!

We had a great time during Malia's visit, Baylee tried to get her to stay, or go with her, still not sure. Overall, it was a wonderful birthday week for our little one year old!

How could I forget? Baylee took her first steps a week before her birthday, was taking 4-8 by her 1st birthday, and full blown walking a week later. Here's her stumbling through her birthday.

Our home

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Welcome to our home...

Our master bath upstairs...I was instantly in love!
Our bedroom
I bet you can't guess who's room this is! Malia helped me with the awesome decor, and her blanket is a handmade gift from good friend Dodie back in Cali

Entryway into our main living area

Our upstairs hallway opens up to living room on one side, and entryway on the other.
Our backyard with plenty of room for dogs and kids to play

The summer

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We've had a busy summer and as time goes on, and more happens, the more I need to blog about, but get overwhelmed at the thought of catching up. Tonight I am making time. Here is a little showing of what we did this summer

As promised, a few shots from the Northwest trek. There was a tram ride that took us around to see wild animals and then we got to see some other stuff on display.

Baylee really enjoyed watching the otters and beavers!

We went to quite a few baseball games, this is the minor league team the Tacoma Rainiers we went to with one of Baylee's best friends, Ruby, and her parents of course!
We celebrated MANY 1st birthdays, including our sweet little girls (that's a blog all on it's own). Here Danny was nice enough to share with all his buddies.

My little angel all tuckered out after lunch! Yes, she cleared her plate, she always does!!

And this was a nice little surprise I woke up to one day...she was SO proud of herself.

We checked out the childrens hands on museum in Tacoma. She had fun exploring, but I think she'll really enjoy it a bit more when she's a little older.
We always have a great time when my good friend Jenae, or as Baylee knows her "Aunt Nae" comes along.
No afternoon is complete without lunch at your own kid size picnic bench. I can't believe how big my little girl is getting!

Only a little bit behind

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Here's what we've been doing instead of blogging

Baylee's first time at the horse races, she loved it!

Grandma and Grandpa came out from TN to visit. We had so much fun with them, went to a baseball game and showed them around Seattle

Baylee loves hanging out in her backpack and checking out all the people
The week after my parents left we finally signed and got the keys for our house!

And the sun has made it's appearance a few times and we've taken full advantage of it!

We've also taken Baylee camping for her first time, went to Northwest Trek up here, and had a great time at Derek's aunts at the river swimming and intertubing. Those pics will be soon to come.

Oh how I love spring!

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Spring is so gorgeous up here, but also still pretty chilly. So we really get out and enjoy the sunny days when they come around. Last weekend we spent some time with Derek's parents and our niece and nephew at the park. It was so beautiful and will parks right on the water edge, we all enjoyed our day.

Everyone enjoyed the swings

Grandma and Grandpa bought all the kids their own chairs and sleeping bags. Everyone is ready for camping this summer!

We've also been spending lots of time at Safeco field watching the Mariners play. We've been to about 5 games so far this season, including 2 games against the Angels :-)

Both Baylee and Derek's first train ride

Nothing better on a friday night than a baseball game!

Some Easter shots

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I cannot believe what a beautiful little girl we have!

I just love her! Here are just some cute shots of Baylee during our Easter photoshoot at the Mom's group.

The whole time she didn't know if she wanted to laugh or cry

I guess she finally made up her mind

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A couple weekends ago we took a drive with Derek's parents to check out camping spots for the summer. Found some decent places along side the creek, can't wait to camping trips this summer! Here's Baylee hanging out with her Grandma.

Baylee and I went to the zoo again with one of our mom groups. Someone is excited to see all the animals!

Not sure if enjoyed watching all the fish and sharks more or just the fact that she was standing more

Our recent family portrait

This girl was born to play in the sand!

And while she's not crawling or walking yet, our little girl is getting much more brave about what she pulls herself up on now. Uh oh.

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Rockin the mohawk

Our little Easter bunny

This is what happens when she sleeps with us

Having fun playing on her new toy

So she didn't quite get the concept of walking behind it

And Dad just thought her terrified face but refusal to let go was hilarious!

Back to life...

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So I'm back to working, and finally working the 3 12 hour shifts a week like I will be from here on out. It's bittersweet. I enjoy what I do, and the floor is great, and the staff I work with are friendly and super helpful. I feel pretty well at home there already. But I miss my little booger so stinkin much! Derek has been great about continuing our nighttime routine once he picks her up. And it's great that he gets some alone time with her too. Enough about me....

Hanging out with our baby group. Of course my daughter has to be the stubborn one and refuse to sit!

Finally had a night out with the girls.

Loving life

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I'm loving life right now

I live in a beautiful state where have gorgeous views and lots of outdoor activities (and no, it doesn't rain as often as I feared)
I'm fortunate to have a job at a hospital I'm finding out is one of the better ones around
We have wonderful friends and family that we get to spend lots of time with and love on Baylee

And we are lucky enough to be in the process of buying our first home!

Last but not least...we are so very blessed to have this bear in our lives
Two teeth and sitting up on her own

She is growing up before our eyes

Her sweet giggles and cheesy grins just light up our lives

And her sweet innocence just makes me want to keep her this little and protected forever

And I'm thankful for a wonderful husband to be by my side as we raise her to be a good person.

A person who is compassionate and caring, someone who will reach out to others but also stand up for herself. Someone who will know what it means to allow God to shine through her, and use her. I truly am loving life, and excited to see what the future holds for our little family.

Zoo, park and more adventures

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On friday Baylee and I went with one of our mom groups to explore the zoo for the day.

We had an amazing time checking out all the animals, but we especially like watching the polar bear out and playing. It's rare you get to see them so active!

The gorgeous view of the water at the zoo. It really turned out to be a great day weatherwise too

The next day was so nice and sunny out Derek and I had to get out of the house. So we ventured back to Point Defiance to see what else was around the park besides the zoo

We took a walk all over the park but made our way down to one of the "beaches". It was beautiful and Chloe had a great time playing in the water and with other dogs.

I can't wait to get a good baby backpack so we can do some more exploring of all the parks and trails around us. We ended the day with a wonderful birthday dinner with Derek's family. We went to japanese steakhouse, got to play on the drums while the staff sang Happy Birthday to Jess (Derek's sister) and I, and all around had a great time with family.

I'm starting to think WA isn't all that bad :-)

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MMM...rice cereal

Going after her Ducky during bathtime

Hanging out with her friends...these babies are all about bringing Pluto back as a planet

Fast asleep in her jumper

We've been having lots of fun watching Baylee grow and learning all sorts of new things. She's pretty good at rolling over from tummy to back, and will at rare times roll from back to tummy. However she is not a fan of being on her belly. We got her a jumperoo with she just loves! Early in the day she spends a lot of time examining and playing with each toy on her excersaucer. We've started eating solid foods (well pureed, I don't know that I consider that solid!) So far she likes rice cereal, peas and bananas. Avocado was a definite no go!

Other good news, I believe I have a job! I got offered 2 positions. I accepted the one and going through the whole background check. Hopefully I am expecting to start Feb 15th. Which brings me to a trip to CA planned for Feb 9-13th. So excited to get to see some friends again and enjoy some sunshine (hopefully!) Good friends of ours just had a baby Jan 28th, can't wait to meet little Emalee!

Baby smiles

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Merry Christmas!

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Baylee helping bake

Daddy and Baylee Christmas eve

Me and my silly niece

I couldn't have asked for a better sister-in-law!

Baylee talking to Daddy while she plays in her new toy

We ended up having a wonderful Christmas. Baylee and I went over to my mother in laws where we, along with Derek's sister, baked tons of goodies all day on Dec 23. The next day we finished up shopping (talk about slackers) and then went to Derek's parents to celebrate with his whole family. We opened gifts, had wonderful hamburgers and most of all enjoyed each others company. What a wonderful family I married into! Christmas morning Derek and Baylee both slept in until 10 am! (I'm sure that won't ever happen again) We then got up and headed over to our good friends the Andersons' house and enjoyed family and plenty more gifts there. Baylee was definitely a very spoiled baby. After the rampage of gift opening everyone helped to put together Baylee's excersaucer she got. Once that was complete (hours later) it was time for dinner. Around 5 Derek, Baylee and I headed back home and spent a little us time and finished opening some gifts that had been mailed to us up here. I passed out for a nap while Daddy and Baylee played. Perfect ending to the perfect day.

Leavenworth

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The weekend before Christmas Derek and I got away and left Baylee overnight (gasp) with her Aunt Jessica (Derek's sister). We didn't get a chance to do anything for our anniversary this year, so we figured this would make up for it. Leavenworth is this adorable little town that is basically a touristy Bavarian town, much like Solvang. But the atmosphere is just amazing there and tons of wonderful restarants with Snitzel and Apfel Strudle. Love it! What's really great about Christmas time though is the whole town gets decked out in lights and every Sat and Sun night through Dec they have a lighting ceremony and celebration. For more info you can check out Leavenworth.org. We had a wonderful time there, walked around all the cute shops, have a great dinner and carried on to have a few drinks at a local bar. We headed back to our hotel where Father Christmas had come to visit (and have a few pics taken) and everyone was gathered around the fire singing Christmas carols. What a neat experience. In the morning we got up in time for breakfast to hear the alphorn be played right out of the breakfast hall balcony. After checking out the last of the shops we missed and driving around town we made our way home. What a great experience and we hope to make Leavenworth an annual tradition!

It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

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We had Christmas parties and pictures with Santa (2 of them actually!)

... and it definitely feels like Christmas on our walk at the park!

And today marks the 1 year anniversary of my mom's death. It's been a crazy year and I cannot believe how much my life has changed since then. I miss her terribly and everyday tell Baylee stories of how kooky she was and how much she would love on Baylee and spoil her if she were here. And even though Baylee may never had gotten the chance to meet her grandma, I hope she will still grow up knowing her. I cannot thank Malia enough for the beautiful flowers she send me today, such a simple gesture but it truly means the world to me!

Snuggles

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Just some shots of recent snuggling going on around the Eliason place...oh, and a beautiful shot of my drive home from a Mommies get together, it's beautiful days like this that make me excited to live in WA! Tomorrow off for a walk at the water's edge, and hopefully another gorgeous day

Ok, ok

2009-11-18T19:00:00.000-08:00

So we've been a bit busy with life, but I guess I need to find the time to update our blog. Long story short, mid Sept we went to WA for Derek's sisters wedding. Had a great time and after 3 weeks headed back home. After much debate decided a week after being home we would move to WA, so the day before Halloween after loading up a moving truck we made the move. So, here we are, living with some friends for now but hoping to be able to buy our very own house after the first of the year! Derek is working construction with our friends company and I'm enjoying my time as a stay at home mom (at least until I get my WA nursing license and have to start working, figure probably mid-December). Baylee is growing huge, by my unofficial count with home measurements, she was 13 lbs and 25 inches long...and not sleeping through the night yet, in fact she often ends up in bed with us, but it seems to make us all happy, so it works for now! Now for pictures!

Disneyland with Aunt Mia

Ryder wants to be the baby too

Hanging out with Daddy on the beach while Mommy surfs one last time

Daddy's idea of bonding time...watching the fight together

The sweet sweet smiles we get everyday!

Getting ready to go out in the WA rain

Hanging out with the puppy dog

Bathtime fun...she's starting to really love splashing around

On our walk home from Aunt Judy's...sure is beautiful!

Baylee is 2 weeks old!

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It's crazy to think just 2 weeks ago, almost to the hour our little one was born. I had been in labor for 20 hours at this point and Baylee was still snug up high and she was not tolerating the trip out as her heart rate had kept dropping. After pushing for nearly an hour, my doctor decided if we wanted our baby to have the best chances of being safe and healthy we had no choice but to be rushed (and I mean RUSHED) for an emergency c-section. Within minutes then she was out, Daddy didn't even have time to make it into the OR until after she was born, that's how quick it went! After 2 more hours spent in the recovery room I finally got moved into my post-partum room. I was so anxious to see my precious new daughter, but I had to wait close to another 3 hours after that as she had a high fever immediately and they had to do lots of tests, start and IV and give her antibiotics and monitor her for awhile. Oh what seemed like forever. She ended up being just fine, and we got to go home about 48 hours later. We've been busy the last couple weeks, but so in love with our little munchkin!

Welcome Baylee Nicole

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Just for Shayne here are the facts short and sweet:
Baylee Nicole Eliason born 8/27/09 @ 1110 am via c-section.
8 lbs 3 oz 20 1/4 in. long and perfect in every way.

The countdown

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We're down to the last week before our little girl is born, and the days cannot pass soon enough! I had a doc appt on Monday and she said things are looking good and she doesn't expect to see me at my appointment next week. I have been measuring a few weeks behind, so she ordered an ultrasound, but I can't get in until next week. Since yesterday afternoon I have been have a few contractions, but nothing that screams labor has started. This waiting is driving me nuts, I just want her to come already! Oh well. Until then I'm enjoying spending time with Derek and friends, and just relaxing and spending as much time in the pool as I still can! Yesterday Derek and I went out for a date night. We walked around Huntington beach, had dinner and had a little bonfire and made smores. It was great. Tonight I"m headed out to Disneyland to hang out with Malia. So excited, but a little nervous. Derek isn't going so I'm just hoping I don't go into labor there, I'd hate to have to drive myself home in labor! That's all, hopefully my next post will be with pics of our precious little girl up!

Baby news

2009-07-31T02:39:00.000-07:00

So I am now just over 36 weeks, so close to technically being full term, and reality is setting in...soon we will have a little baby! So scary. I've had a few friends that were weeks ahead of me that have gone on and had their babies. They didn't really phase me, but I always thought "when Andrea has her baby, I'm going to freak, cause that'll mean we're way too close" as she is due just 10 days ahead of me. Well, she had her little one today, and both are doing great! I'm so happy for her, but scared out of my mind for us! I still have SO much to do. And to top it off I've been having some frequent contractions tonight, most about 5-6 minutes apart, feeling it all around, but nothing too severe. Hopefully I can get some rest soon and they'll go away come afternoon, this little chickie needs to cook a bit longer!!

It's about time...

2009-07-08T16:33:00.000-07:00

For an update. A lot has happened in the past 3 months. Beginning of April was another tough time for us. The 13th was my mom's birthday and since we never had a funeral, we had a sort of memorial/birthday party for her down at the beach just like she had wanted. A few of our aunts and uncles came down and we spent the afternoon having pizza, looking at old photos and remembering what a wonderful mom, sister, daughter, friend and crazy lady she was. At about sunset we went down and spread some of her ashes in the water then finished the night sharing smores and memories around the campfire. Sadly though just 2 days later my grandpa (mom's dad) passed away also. My grandpa had a severe stroke and heart attack the first day of the year, and had many ups and downs through the months. But he was done, if he couldn't be the stubborn independent farmer he had been for 85 years, there was no point in sticking around.

Since then we've just been busy hanging out with friends, enjoying the summer. A friend from Germany came out and we got the chance to spend the day at Sea World with him, had a blast! We've been to the beach a few times, gone through a couple bad burns each. Both Derek and I ended up getting pretty sick, he got over it much quicker than I did though thanks to the help of medicine. Unfortunately nothing was safe enough for my little girl so I just had to tough it out (or whine about it, however you want to look at it). This past week Derek and I were able to make it to San Francisco for a little pre-baby vacation. We stopped in San Luis Obispo the first night and perused through the farmers market. Next day we took the scenic coast route up and made it into San Fran early evening, just enough time to drive down Lombard St (crookedest street), enjoy the view from Coit tower and walk through local streets for a great little pizza place. We spend 4th of July window shopping and enjoying more tourist traps such as Union square, Giradelli square, Fisherman's warf and Pier 39. We had intended on ending our day down by the pier just in time for fireworks. By 6 we were done with the crowds and had tired feet, so we were losers and spent the night asleep back in our hotel, but oh the rest was well appreciated. On our drive back south on Sunday we stopped at the Winchester Mansion, what a crazy place! We made it down to Morro bay where we called it a night. We found a great little hidden restaurant off the beaten path, so go check out the Beach House off Main street in Morro Bay. Beautiful view, great view and awesome owners, you won't be dissapointed! Monday then we made it down to Jalama beach where we spent the day soaking up the sun before finishing our drive home. It was a much needed trip and we really enjoyed all the sites and just spending time talking and hanging out with just my hubby and me.

And of course, our little girl is growing right along. Things are seeming well in the pregnancy. We've made it to 33 weeks with no significant happenings. I've still been nauseas but manage to keep most things down now. We're starting to have those freak out moments realizing the next month is going to fly by and we'll soon have our little one! That said Derek and I decided to save money and not have maternity photos done, but instead took our own cheesy shots on our trip.

I am looking forward to being off work the end of this month, so hoping to get babies room and the rest of the house worked on during that time, and of course, spend more time blogging!

We really are blessed

2009-04-10T15:34:00.000-07:00

So lately I have been a bit more depressed and complaining about life a bit more than I should be. Some of it is justified and certain situations just suck, but some I just need to get over and really focus on the positive in life, not everything is that bad. That being said, while I may not have a huge close family, God has blessed me with wonderful friends to make up for it. I really don't know what I would do without them. And it amazes how and when they've come into my life, and how each has somehow because a very important part of it. I cannot be grateful enough for that. Finances are hard, but I am thankful that I do have a steady job that does make enough to support us, and that we are still able to have a little fun with our money. Yes it's been hard lately with as much as we're putting into the house, but we will (hopefully) get that back someday, and while it's a struggle now, I look forward to the day it will be much better. And speaking of the house. While this house has been a huge headache in itself, I'm glad we've put the effort into trying to keep it. For one it has been great coming across certain things and being reminded of something. And true there is a ton of junk we're just throwing away, it kind of makes it worth it when we find that box of pictures from years ago, or my mom's old diary we get to read through and have a way of hearing the old stories she won't be able to tell. I'm glad we have these things to keep with us and not just walk away from. And last, yes, it will be great if we can actually get some money out of the house when it's all said and done to help out with all the debt we've been put into taking care of my mom and all, but more than that, I'm glad because that's what my mom would have wanted. While it might have been much easier to just let the house go into forclosure and walk away because we might not get anything from it anyhow, my mom fought so much to keep that house and we've already put so much effort into it, it would be a shame to let her wishes just die with her.

Our pregnancy update

2009-03-24T00:37:00.000-07:00

So I'm sure many of you have already heard, we have found out our little one is a GIRL! I was quite shocked, Derek said he had an inkling it might be, but we're both very excited none the less! Let the shopping spree begin! The ultrasound was great fun, we got to see her moving all around and chatting away already. For anyone with future ultrasounds, a little OJ before hand really wakes them up! A friend from work has been so gracious and we already have a stroller, swing and a couple play mats. We bought our carseat that goes with the stroller, so we're very excited to start getting our baby collection started.
We still don't have our car back, hoping it'll be done sometime in the next week...it is taking SO long!
We've been busy working on my mom's house, and after 3 HUGE dumpsters, the inside of the house, junk out of the back yard and some of the garage is cleared out. I'm sure we could use another dumpster for the rest of the garage, but I think we might have to hold off for a little....those things are expensive! Thanks to a friends dad that has helped us a ton, we have guys that have retextured all the walls and ceilings, cleaned everything up and are painting in the next couple days. End of the week we'll have new carpet going in and the (inside of the) place will look brand new! Well, close, we still have SO much work to go into it, but we are making progress. I am so ready for this to be done!
That is a basic update of our life, working and working on the house on days off. I can't wait to get a life back and focus on something else!

Highlights of the week

2009-02-24T04:18:00.000-08:00

So this past week or 2 have been busy and a little more than stressful to say the least. First the happy parts. Our very dear friends Heather and Ian officially tied the knot on Saturday. It was a beautiful wedding, her grandfather walked her down the aisle, there were tears all around and she was one of the most gorgeous brides I have seen. I was jealous of how well organized everything was (she's an event planner, what else would I have expected?) and how perfectly everything turned out. I'm sure they will have a wonderful marriage together. Another happy point I got to spend my birthday with our great friends at Disneyland, with my big happy "It's my birthday" pin and all. The rest of the week stunk as the lovely pregnancy sickness has kicked back in, but he next week Derek took me to see Phantom of the Opera at the Pantages theatre. What an incredible show! I loved Derek for happily going with me even though I know it's not high on his list of things to do.
Now for the not so happy. First off our beloved new car is temporarily out of service. Friday night on our way to the rehearsal dinner we got in an accident that forced us to have our new baby towed away. First off no one but the car was hurt, baby mom and dad are all just fine, along with the poor guy driving the other car. And with the exception of a bent wheel, our car proved to us it is really good in accidents and does a great job absorbing damage! Other not so happy news, I am finding I really don't enjoy being pregnant, not much at least. Don't get me wrong I love knowing there is a child growing inside of me that Derek and I have created, and I want this baby to grow to be strong and healthy, and I cannot begin to explain the love I have this little bean, past that, it's not what I hoped for. I knew to expect the "morning" sickness, but never realized how miserable most days would be. And then just when that seems to get better, it comes back, and brings along a stake through your back causing severe non-stop pain. And the near daily headthrobs that end only in tears. I'm sure everything is exxagerated cause I'm over sensitive right now, but man, this sucks. Everyone kept saying once I get into the 2nd tri it would get better, but it doesn't, and only seems to add things. I just have to remind myself it will all be worth it in the end.
And sorry for no pics of anything, that is in the car in the towyard. :-)

Disneyland, Family cars and Crazy bachelorettes

2009-02-07T12:52:00.000-08:00

We've been busy lately, lots of celebrations going on and busy with work and kids. Last week we had my niece and nephew for 6 days. While I love those kids they can certainly be a handful. You find out so much more about people after 6 days. It was a real eye-opener for what we have to look forward to...and I'm scared!! Last week was one of my very best friend Malia's birthday so of course we celebrated at Disneyland. Maybe it's because I never went to DL on my birthday as a kid, but I cannot imagine any better place to spend a birthday! We had a great time hanging out and I was so proud of the awesome breast cancer blanket I made her, I had to force myself to give it up. The following Saturday was another close friends bridal shower and bachelorette party. There were a few hick-ups but overall the girls all had fun. Of course I got to be completely sober pregnant one, but I had a really good time dancing and hanging out. I just cannot believe Heather is getting married. I can only imagine how she felt at my wedding now! Lastly we got a new family friendly car! We went to look at small SUV type cars and ended up driving home in a brand new Rav-4. We love it! It has just about everything we could possibly want, plenty of space and is a blast to drive. So Derek had to say goodbye to his fun 350Z of childless days and welcome in the family car.
We traded this
for this

The bachelorette getting down with one of her bridesmaids
Hubby and I at Disneyland
The birthday girl and I

I really don't know how people do this!?!?

2009-01-27T10:06:00.000-08:00

How on earth do pregnant women grow babies and work full time!?!?! I know we've got a lot of stuff and stress going on besides this, but man, I can hardly make it into work anymore, and when I'm there, it's miserable. I had to call out last night, again. I know working night takes a toll on your body anyhow, but it's just kicking my butt now! I can't sleep during the day much, so between the normal nausea and feeling tired thanks to pregnancy hormones I am beyond exhausted for work, which nearly doubles the nausea! What I wouldn't give to be able to quit my job or at least go down to part time. In between that I've been wearing myself down trying to get my mom's house cleaned up so my bro can be able to move in. That has been a much harder job than we anticipated. So, thanks for my little rant, I know things will get better, it just can't come soon enough!

This year is full of surprises!

2009-01-15T14:00:00.000-08:00

With sorrow there also comes joy. 5 days after my mom passed Derek and I found out we were pregnant (well, thought we were, 3 positive tests later we were convinced!) While the time has been hard missing my mom, I am so looking forward to having this new life that is growing within! It's bittersweet, but this little bundle of joy has definitely allowed me to keep my focus on something else and be hopeful for the future and not longing for the past. We're now 9 weeks along and so far things are looking good. It's very exciting as I'll get to share this time with a long lost friend from hs that is just a few days further along than me! What a blessing this child is!

Here's to 2009!

2009-01-03T20:26:00.000-08:00

So it's been awhile, we've been relaxing and trying to get through the holidays. We went up to WA to visit Derek's family and that was a great escape from everything we'd been dealing with. It snowed up there and was absolutely beautiful! My buddy Desi and I even got to build a snowman which I can't remember when I've last done. I got to spend a great day baking with my mother and sister in law, it was such a great bonding moment. I really lucked out with amazing in laws! Spent Christmas eve with the whole family and then flew back home on Christmas day in time to have dinner with my brothers and niece. New years we went out with some friends and while everyone else looked like they were having a blast, I wasn't feeling too great but tried to make the best of it. So we're looking forward to the new year and all that it holds. I'm planning on this year being a good one for us. It'll be busy, but so far so good. Here's a few pics from the past couple weeks.
The new butterfly in memory of my mom.
Desi and I's snow-woman
Mom and sis cracking up while baking and refusing to look at the camera. What a great day!
The kids patiently waiting to open gifts. I would've had that thing tore up already!
The snow on our friends road.
Well, hope everyone had a very merry Christmas and a happy new year!

RIP Mom

2008-12-15T10:22:00.000-08:00

Wow, how quickly things can change. 2 days ago we were supposed to bring my mom home. That got postponed because we had to change some of her medications and get more help, so yesterday at 3 the ambulance was to pick her up from the hospital to bring her home. At 1:42 my brother, nephew and I sat by her side while my mom passed away. She was peaceful. And now she is completely not in pain, she will no longer struggle to breathe. It's heartbreaking though. It's a bittersweet situation. I hate realizing that she won't be there when we have our first child, for my nephews graduation, any important moments in life. As much as we argued I will miss not having her to call to talk, for her input. I saved a recent message of hers. She rarely would call without medical questions, but this message was a simple "I love you, hope you're having a good time." Something touched me about that, and I'm so glad I will have that saved, and I can always dial a few numbers to hear her say I love you. This photo is from earier in the week, my mom all hopped up on drugs trying to figure out if the straw would fit on her face like she thought it should. Turns out she decided it didn't.

Christmas and all the joys of the season

2008-12-13T07:15:00.000-08:00

It's been a crazy couple weeks, lots going on, lots of decisions to have to make. I have not made it through a single day without crying at least once, but it's usually more. We are bringing my mom home to our house on hospice today. I'm scared. I'm overwhelmed and nervous about this will affect our lives. I feel selfish for that, but it's a reality I have to think of. She's a strong woman so I can't help but think she'll last quite a few months, but yet, she's been so weak and has had no appetite, and without food and water your body can't go on long. I just wish I could predict the future and plan accordingly. We've planned on going to WA for Christmas. I'm looking forward to it, but am terrified at the same time. We need the break, Derek needs to see his family right now, but I am so worried that I might be making the wrong decision, that something may happen when we're gone. Who knows. Guess we're just going to take it one day at a time.
We put up our Christmas tree and got some decorations going, and we welcomed the holiday season with our annual Disneyland holiday trip. It was good fun, getting older 7 hour days at Disneyland are way too long! But we stuck it out and watched the fireworks and I cried as White Christmas started playing while California snow fell on heads. That song just gives me chills. Something about that rendition just gets me. That's been us. Looking forward to what our lives hold in store for us.

Why didn't I think of that???

2008-11-17T03:44:00.001-08:00

So this week has been a busy week. And emotional. My mom had her 2nd surgery on her hip cause it kept coming out. She did great, next day great, next day she can't breath and is send to the ICU on a machine that helps her to breath. Not quite a ventilator, but just short of that. The doctor is talking about code status, which in lay man's terms means, 'she's not doing great, probably won't make it through all this, so do we really want to intubate and go through cpr'. In short, she's ended up doing ok, they put a chest tube in to drain the fluid around her lungs which was causing her to not breath well and things are looking up. Now, what's really got me thinking now is why the nurses and doctors didn't do some things, or do them quicker, and why I didn't push for it. I'm at work as I write this, and a patient on our floor is having a difficult time breathing. Our nurses are so quick to call doctors and run a bunch of tests to help this pt so he does not worsen. First they never (to my knowledge, all the nurses say no) did a CT scan of my mom's chest. I won't get too into it, but this to me is a huge mistake as it may very well be that she threw a PE (got a clot in her lungs from her recent surgery) And it frustrates me cause I too kept forgetting to talk to the doctor about it. Second, why didn't they decide to put the chest tube earlier?? If they did a CXR that showed she had fluid surrounding her lungs, why didn't they quickly do something about that?? And why didn't I push for it? Ugh. I know emotions get in a way of critical thinking, but where was my brain??? Better yet, where were the nurses brains who were getting paid to think?!?!?!

New Ink

2008-11-08T00:13:00.000-08:00

I got my newest tattoo today. I'm pretty stoked as it is something that has been 4 years in waiting. I started drawing it in New Zealand, finished it this summer, but wanted to wait until I could stand being out of any water for 2 weeks. So after waiting 6 hours for my artist's gear to come in from Vegas it's finally done. I'm really excited with it so far, who knows, I may end up adding on more to it eventually.

We are finally moved into our new place, and quite frankly I love it. And although it is in Lake Elsinore I'm already excited about being closer to friends and family. I really God is going to do some awesome stuff out here, which is great cause we really need a change and good kick in the butt!

And last here are some pics from our Halloween adventures, a bit late.

Insomnia

2008-10-31T03:41:00.000-07:00

I hate insomnia. It screws up my whole day. And with today being moving day I really cannot afford being so tired. I even went to bed early, really who goes to sleep at 930? But I was that tired, so I looked forward to a nice long good night's rest and ready to face the day ahead of me. My body decided that 4-5 hours it's gotten used to was enough, so just after 2 I was wide awake. Now I'm sleepy but just keep tossing and turning. Sure enough 6 will come and I'll be ready to crash out, but nope, that's when I'll have to get up and spend all day finishing packing and moving boxes and appliances. Ugh.
This past week on the other hand has been lots of fun, the calm before the storm so to speak. Last weekend was a couple Halloween parties so Derek and I got dressed up as a Bavarian couple and headed out with my friend Nikki from work. I must say I was so proud of myself for our costumes. I had a dirndl top I bought from Austria and added the rest from my own closet. I actually had to make Derek's leiderhosen, which despite how silly he felt, I think turned out remarkably well! Unfortunately I will have to wait to upload those pics until after the move. I had a great time hanging out with work friends and dancing the night away. Derek loved all the sports that were on, however isn't so fond of dancing, so after the UFC fight was over, he got a bit bored. Overall it ended up being a good night for all. After working the following days Nikki and I made a point to hit up the Ducks/Redwings game. I will say being a Redwings fan, but just a hockey fan, it gets very dissapointing watching the Ducks win. True the Ducks do have quite a few good players and overall aren't too bad, but I just can't get over the idea that they're a disney team. Don't get me wrong, I love Disneyland and all that, but how can you take a sports team that was created after a Disney movie seriously?? And to have them beat my beloved Wings, in OT?? Ugh. Well, there's another game in Jan we're already planning on, so hopefully I'll be able to be a proud fan and celebrate a victory at that time!

Moving next week

2008-10-24T02:33:00.000-07:00

So we're moving next week to Elsinore. I spent so much time trying to get out of there, and here I am 5 years later, moving back. We've got an apt for now, we'll see where God is going to lead us. There are a couple things I am really looking forward to; being closer to some friends, and my bro and nephew, a church Derek and I both really like and getting more involved in that, and closer to the mountains for the winter. So there are good things, just so hard when you're moving from a nicely landscaped area near the beach to an apt with "a view" of a dirt field. So. Derek and I are both looking forward to getting tattoos soon, probably not the smartest idea right now but we decided it's our anniversary presents to each other. My mom has been up and down, was doing well, popped her hip out not once, but twice and so now is a brace. If that doesn't work they may need to go back in and do surgery. And Derek has decided not to go to the school he was planning on, so onto figuring that out. That's us, who knows, we may end up buying a place in Murrieta and settling down out there!

Update on my mom...and life

2008-10-03T11:38:00.000-07:00

So those who are on myspace (who isn't anymore) probably already know my mom broke her hip and yesterday had surgery. She did pretty well, doing even better this morning. It's going to be a long recovery process but she's a tough cookie. The surgery was scary because of all her respiratory problems they weren't sure if she would easily come off the ventilator, but she did just fine. Being a nurse (and a bit of a pessimist) I first considered the worst options, I need to learn not to do that! So, that's that, we're going to see how she does and figure life around that. About us moving. We gave our 30 day notice to our apt, however we don't know where we're going to move to. We have considered moving in with my mom, which all around isn't a great idea except for the fact we will be there CONSTANTLY, even that isn't a good thing. The apt in Temecula didn't work out, alway ask about big dogs, regardless of the amount you know already live there. So we're looking into a few places in Elsinore. It's all going to come down to what's available in the next couple weeks. I also have a ton of stuff for work coming up that I am not excited about, and life still happens.

when life gets tough...make cartoons of yourself!

2008-09-27T08:32:00.001-07:00

So as if we were not posed with enough issues coming up, we just found out my mom's chemo treatments are not completely paid for, and unless she (we) can come up with $900 every 3 weeks, she might not recieve treatment. Very frustrating. I know somehow everything will work out, there are a few possible options out there that we're looking into, it's just another worry we don't need. Thank God for a very patient, optimistic, calm and understanding husband I have that is so level headed. When all this comes at us and I can't think of anything to do but cry, he is so loving and knows how to calmly walk me through everything and remind me there is a light at the end of the tunnel, may be a long tunnel, but there is an end and it will all be ok. So that is my rant. Oh, on top of it, I set a day out to hang out with my great friend Malia and went to Disneyland (sorry no pictures). We had a great time and perfect way to end my few days off, then someone rear ended me on the way home. SERIOUSLY??? anyhow, I'm ok, but another dent in Derek's car, that thing is cursed. Fun thing: the other day I copied Megh and made some little peoples of Derek and I. We're pretty cute in cartoon world.

Coming next month....new life

2008-09-23T00:31:00.000-07:00

So October is going to be a big, no, huge month for us. A few changes. Not only is it our 1st anniversary (YAY) but I will be taking 0n a new, 2nd, job, Derek starts school full time, and will that go down to part time, at a different store because we will also be moving! We have talked about it a bit and finally made a decision tonight. We had discussed being closer to my mom but neither Derek nor I wanted to move to Elsinore, nor in with my mom. As much as it would help us save money, we'd lose our insanity and as long as we can make it on our own, we will. Visiting with some friends in Temecula a simple comment of "this place is nice, why don't we move here?" turned into looking at a vacant apt, and now our decision to move the end of next month. Crazy how life works, but I think it overall will be better for us in the end, and for my mom. With my moms house on the way home from Derek's school, it will make it easier for him to stop by and check up on her during the week and only 20 min away I can go visit and help her more and not have it be an all day ordeal. I'm excited. And nervous. And I can get a job at a hospital out there per diem and that too will give me a chance to check it out and decide if I might want to work out there full time or continue to commute to mine out here. Ok, time for bed!

A pleasant surprise

2008-09-15T17:27:00.000-07:00

Most people have something they're good about doing, and areas they lack. My husband is a godsend when it comes to massages, there is an overabundance. However, he definitely lacks in housekeeping skills. He will do the minimum he has to after I have asked him. So when I got home last night to find our house cleaned up, the bedroom picked up, the bed was even made, whole house vaccuumed and a quite a few loads of laundry done, I was a happy wife. For some of us this is just weekly, or daily, chores. But for my husband it was a huge accomplishment, and it made it even sweeter that it wasn't something I had asked of him or expected. See, I'm not hard to please, just need to find the right things to do. Now to figure out a way to show my appreciation :-)

Support boobies!

2008-09-14T20:34:00.000-07:00

So this weekend was the Avon 2 day walk for breast cancer. I had done the walk, 2, or 3? times before, but this year I worked as medical crew member. Such a different experience but awesome none the less. At first I didn't feel as valuable as I had as a walker. The whole purpose is to gain attention and funding for breast cancer research and treatment, and done through thousands of people raising a significant amount of money then vowing to walk 39.some miles (or as much as they can). It is an amazing feat and takes a ton of time, energy and dedication. As much as the finances are a huge priority, that is not the rewarding part. The rewarding part is crossing that finish line, going down the victory tunnel and knowing that what you're doing is going to make a difference in someone's life. May not mean finding a cure, but if seeing a sea of pink walk by reminds one woman to get her mammogram, that could potentially save a life. And that may be just the minimum effect. Hopefully someday all of our and others' hard work can lead to a cure, or better treatment to save not only one person's life, but millions of peoples lives. Doing crew was different, you don't experience that bond with all those walking. It got me down at first. But then I remembered how valuable the medical crew was to me during my walks, and everyone else. Granted, if it wasn't for the walkers, Iwould have no need to be there. But if it wasn't for myself and all the other crew people, medical, food service, clean-up, everyone who volunteered their time, the walkers couldn't do it all either. Each blister I popped and knee I wrapped and iced may not have meant much, but it makes a difference when it helps make those miles a little easier than they would have been had I not been there. I have already signed up for next year, and look forward to it. And I am even happier to say that Derek is signed up to walk for next year, so look forward to supporting him to raise funds!! I am so glad he's doing it